What is abusive relationship and how to get out of it?

When a friend has some ulterior motive he first makes a show of love. Then to achieve his ulterior goals he begins with ignoring you. He behaves in a way that hurts you. His behaviour is against your wishes. He tries to force you to behave as he wants. Then quarrels begin and lastly there is beating.

But he does not want to let go of you because you are his bait for success. He wants to use you to achieve his hidden goal. Therefore he again makes loving gestures so that you feel 'No, he loves me a lot. It is just that he loses his temper.' And you cannot get out of such relationships. He may break your relations with family and other friends, so that you cannot contact them and do not get any advice from them.

You must pick up when there is beginning, when someone starts behaving against your wishes. Alaram must ring in the brain about your one sided love. Realise that you are being trapped in abusive relationship. When the next stages show up, the best way to protect your interests and to avoid further sufferings is to throw him out of your life.