That there is happiness, joy in something or someone NEEDS acceptance from the mind. Since every individual has acceptance of such joy in varied objects, there are many likings. And then according to likings one gets happiness....

Meaning? First acceptance of joy in the object ...... then liking ...... then joy.. then love proportional to that joy....

Mind does not accept any joy in God hence there is no love for Him.

If you find joy of relationship with worldly persons and if you could think what would be joy of the same relationship with God....Definitely one gets love for God.

Love is THE binding force...As we look after our loved ones .. So does God and if He is there to look after you ... Then your care would be taken any time and all the time .. any where and every where...

JUST THE MATTER OF ACCEPTANCE BY YOUR MIND THAT GOD IS LOOKING AFTER YOU ALL THE TIME.

All the sufferings are the part of that love because these sufferings relieve you from the burden of related past sins.