Then the most important qualities : Humility, politeness, tolerance, endurance, respecting others.

Politeness is through behavior and through talking. Word selection is all important. Harsh words should not be used at all. Disdainful behavior must be avoided.

When you respect others, others would also reciprocate. Just the change is language will make feel the person that he is given respect. Rough language shows disrespect.

When others misbehave, you should use this opportunity to improve tolerance.Let others misbehave and you must know that this behavior is because the person thinks his self happiness is blocked. Misbehavior is never targeted against any person. It is the show of discontent arising out of thinking self-happiness cannot be achieved. That thinking may be correct or may be wrong. Hence misbehavior is show of infirmity of the person who misbehaves and hence other person should keep calm realizing this fact.

Bodily ailments, hunger etc should be borne with patience if at all such situation arises. This will reduce the attachment to the physical body.

Humility is the thinking that all others are better than you because you do not know who is saint and who is not. But you are sure of your own condition that you are no where near God.

But as it is stated, it should not mean taking orders from others. In fact humble person should always behave in such a fashion that pleases God.