It is very difficult in early stages to concentrate mind on God. In fact, mind thinks of everything else other than God and only for few seconds mind visualizes the form of God.

This is the initial stage where from soul begins and from this point many souls have advanced to a state of perfection and were successful in uniting with God. First understand who is going to be romantic partner for you.

Do you know God, or Krishn, is what kind of beloved? Imagine the most handsome person of your imagination, most smart, most intelligent, most suave, most soft talking, most loving, most kind, most compassionate, top most in any other virtue; Krishn is infinite times better than anyone else in all of the virtues. The reason is all the attributes of God divine meaning all the qualities of God have infinite expanse both qualitatively and quantitatively.

For example, Krishn handsome than any other person whether mayic (from infinite universes and heaven) or from divine area which consists of realms of all forms of divine Gods like Devi, Ganpati, Shankar, Vishnu and so on) , he is so attractive that even the wives of great God, Brahma, Shankar, Vishnu get attracted to him. Not only that Brahma, Shankar, Vishnu themselves too get attracted to Krishn. There is no one in this universe who would not get attracted to Krishn, if anyone gets a chance to see his divine form.

When RAAS was about to start we know that Parvati as well as Shankar in lady form reached the spot to enjoy the dance with Krishn. Ascetics of the forest Dandkarnya got attracted to God Ram and wanted to turn to lady form to have elixir of romantic relationship from him. God Ram promised them that when he would reincarnate in the form God Krishn, their wish would be fulfilled. So the starting point is 'No one can go anywhere near to Krishn, whom I have accepted to be my beloved and I am his darling.' But the worldly attraction do not allow to stay firm on this decision. We will go step by step from zero to the topmost point.