love is automatic development Not with efforts, it happens people say But it happens only there Where joy is sure!!

It means love is not automatic. It does not happen, Self-joy is the base for love. One can love only if relationship would make the lover happy.
More the conceived happiness, more is the love.
No one loves beggar sitting on the road. Why? There is no conceived happiness in relationship with him. No one is going to get anything from such beggar. Hence no love.
One must be analytical to go to depth of love feeling and find out what it is. It would be most stupid to think love has no base. If love has base which is happiness, does it mean that happiness to has some base?

The short lived happiness that we receive has base in our concept. But nature to seek happiness has base that Soul is a small spark of the whole God and the whole God is nothing but filled with happiness from all sides- happiness inside, happiness outside, happiness back side, happiness front side, happiness upside, happiness down side, happiness left side, happiness right side....Soul is element of such happiness and hence it wants this very happiness that is unending.
It means soul is separated from God and hence it tries to reunite with God meaning that soul wants to be happy forever and such unending happiness is available only with his whole - God.
Thus soul can never come to rest and to permanently satisfied sate unless soul seeks God.

Kahate hai pyar kiya nahi jata ho jata hai lenkin ye vahi hota hai jaha se kuch (sukh) mila tay hota hai....:)